How To Stop Catastrophising & Start Believing in Yourself
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How To Stop Catastrophising & Start Believing in Yourself

22:53 Mar 8, 2026
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This week is a LIFE UPDATE… but also a mindset reset.We’re talking about the difference between cynical thinking and optimistic thinking and how the way you interpret events literally shapes your confidence, momentum and results.Because here’s the thing:Cynical thinking ? helplessness ? catastrophising ? “everything happens to me.'”Optimism ? hope ? resilience ? “I’ll figure this out.”And the story you keep telling yourself becomes your reality.In this episode we cover:– Why cynical thinking feels protective (but keeps you stuck)– How optimism actually builds confidence– The link between hope and action– Why “everything is falling apart” might just be a perspective issue– A HUGE ODD update ?– The dog bite story (yes… really)– Audiobook recommendations we’re lovingIf you’ve been feeling stuck, spiralling, or low-key negative about everything lately… this might be the reset you need.Because becoming more optimistic isn’t delusional. It’s powerful.? Listen now & let us know your biggest takeaway in the comments.More from us here: www.instagram.com/oiletstalkYou can find Gemma here:www.instagram.com/coachgemma/www.instagram.com/upliftmvmt/www.upliftmovement.com.auYou can find Kate here: www.instagram.com/thekatemorris/www.instagram.com/katemorrispt/www.katemorriscoaching.com
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