About this episode
Nic Collins grew up a middle child with undiagnosed ADHD, chronic asthma, and the quiet belief that he wasn’t enough. By the time he hit adulthood, alcohol had become a daily habit and emotional suppression a lifestyle. But everything changed after a DUI arrest, an unlikely friend's support, and the subsequent therapy sessions that changed his perception of himself. Now, six years sober and newly graduated as a mental health counsellor, Nic shares his journey from struggling to fit in to learning how to live in service of others. Key TakeawaysChildhood trauma can hide in “normal” households—emotional needs can still go unmet.Middle-child syndrome is real, especially when paired with sensitivity and lack of early emotional tools.ADHD and alcohol abuse often go hand-in-hand due to impulsivity and emotional dysregulation.Sobriety doesn’t look the same for everyone. You don’t have to do AA to recover—daily intention can also work for some people.Therapy isn't just about fixing relationships with others—it’s about understanding yourself.Service work can awaken a spiritual calling, even if you don’t have the language for it yet.You’re never too old to start over. Nic walked away from a long career to pursue a degree in counselling at 40+.Self-acceptance and healing are nonlinear journeys.About: Nic Collins is a public speaker, mental health professional, and writer with a passion for helping others live with authenticity, confidence, and alignment. He holds a Master's in Counselling and Rehabilitation and brings experience in coaching, mentorship, and creative therapeutic approaches, including narrative and adventure-based work. Nic is creator and co-host of the Constant Quest Podcast, and curator of The Advance, a men's gathering in the mountains of north Georgia, focusing on community, connection, and growth. Connect at: Instagram, Website, PodcastWe'd love to hear from you 🥰.Support the show✔️ Like, Comment & Subscribe✔️ Share with someone who needs this message✔️ Leave a review on your podcast app✔️ Subscribe and support here or here ☕ 🙏 Follow us for video clips and more: Instagram, Fa
