How a Secure Couple Talks About Sex: A Real Conversation With My Boyfriend #415
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How a Secure Couple Talks About Sex: A Real Conversation With My Boyfriend #415

21:29 Nov 19, 2025
About this episode
It feels a little vulnerable getting my boyfriend on the mic with me to talk a bit openly together for strangers lol. I also wondered if this episode would come across like I was bragging about my relationship being in a good place when I know so many people struggle, or if it would be too boring because, well, listening to a secure, happy, sexually satisfied couple talk about their relationship is not the most entertaining thing in the world haha. But I do believe it's important for other people to hear/witness what security does sound like, so they know what's possible for them too and to not settle for less! I've had clients tell me things they want and then say "I would love...But I know that kind of love doesn't even exist so I'd even settle for..." and I'll cut in like "Whatttt? No, it does exist." So hopefully you see the value in listening to security, so that you can build on it yourself or find it. If you work to be a secure man, than you will attract or keep a secure woman.
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