Intentional Parenting, Donor Decisions, and Fighting for LGBTQ+ Families with Darra Gordon

Intentional Parenting, Donor Decisions, and Fighting for LGBTQ+ Families with Darra Gordon

49:14 Jun 16, 2025
About this episode
Darra Gordon, the new CEO of Family Equality, joins host Jaimie to share her wild, beautiful, and intentional journey to queer parenthood—while simultaneously leading in LGBTQ+ advocacy. In a conversation filled with laughs, wisdom, and the occasional tween meltdown tangent, Dara opens up about trying to conceive at the same time as her wife, choosing donors (yes, plural), navigating unexpected challenges, and raising three incredible kids—including a nonbinary teen—in a world that’s not always built for queer families. Plus, they discuss why Family Equality’s work matters more than ever in our current political climate.🎙️ "We were dating... and trying to get pregnant at the same time." — Darra Gordon🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? Check out our sponsor packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠🎧 Loved this episode?Support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for exclusive bonus content and help keep these stories alive!OR become a paid subscriber through our RedCircle page for bonus episodes and one-time or recurring donations:🔗 redcircle.com/thequeerfamilypodcast/exclusive-content🏳️‍🌈 Key TakeawaysTrying to conceive at the same time as your partner (!)Choosing sperm donors before even meeting each otherDonor egg decisions and honoring cultural heritageThe emotional layers of queer fertility journeysRaising a nonbinary teen with pride and purposeWhy queer families need legal protections—and how Family Equality is fighting for them🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈Darra Gordon (she/her) is the newly appointed CEO of Family Equality, a national organization dedicated to advancing equality for LGBTQ+ families. A lifelong nonprofit leader and social justice advocate, Dara brings decades of experience from roles at GLAAD and the Hetrick-Martin Institute, where she led organizational growth and transformation. Outside of her powerhouse advocacy work, Dara is a proud queer mom of three—including a nonbinary teen—and is deeply committed to building a world where all families are seen, supported, and protected. Her work and her parenting are both rooted in intention, visibility, and love.🏳️‍🌈 Resources MentionedFamily Equality – Learn more about th
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