About this episode
Today I’d like to talk about why I believe ditching your ex after a breakup makes you more attractive to them and can eventually lead to them asking for you back.
It seems to be common knowledge that a certain phenomenon seems to exist when it comes to “ditching exes.”
And perhaps it is this comment from quora that best sums it up,
Well, it’s that “bolded part” of the comment that interests us.
“I cannot explain it. It’s like some mysterious energy that when you genuinely pull out, the other person comes back into your life.”
Now, I’m not a big believer in “mysterious energies” but I can’t tell you how many comments and experiences I have that prove this.
Like this comment,
And this one,
And this one,
I’ve written in the past that this phenomenon occurs when you seem to genuinely ditch your ex for good and the great irony with it is that often times when you get to a point where you are “over” an ex you don’t want them back anymore. This ultimately leads to the narrative of exes coming back at the wrong time, when you don’t want them.
So today, I’d actually like to peel back the layers even more and look at the reasons for why this phenomenon exists.
In my opinion it boils down to a combination of four things,
Time
Difficult With Alternatives
Your World No Longer Revolves Around Them
Jealousy
Let’s get to work.
