About this episode
Today I’m going to show you the eight most common mistakes people make after a breakup.
And I brought in the brilliant Coach Shaunna Nicol to help me.
Here are the major mistakes,
Not Implementing A No Contact Rule
Moving On Too Soon
Snooping
Trying To Get Closure
Breaking No Contact
Gnatting And Begging
Bragging About How Good You’re Doing After The Breakup
Not Being Able To Let Go Of The Breakup
Let’s dive in a bit deeper on each of these.
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Mistake #1: Not Implementing A No Contact Rule
Generally speaking there are a few type of clients that come to us.
We have the new clients who’ve never been introduced to our program before.
We have the people who have been introduced to our program
Each of these types of clients has a unique relationship with the no contact rule.
So, for the people who are familiar with our way of doing things, they have no problem implementing a No Contact Rule.
That’s not the case for people who are maybe new to our program and don’t really see the No Contact Rule as anything other than a way to manipulate your ex.
Yet, every single success story that we have, has used some version of the No Contact Rule, or at least attempted to use some version of the No Contact Rule.
So the first major mistake I see people making is not even doing a No Contact Rule. Usually, they have a lot of different reasons for why they’re not willing to do a No Contact Rule.
But usually, they all revolve around some version of worry worried of my ex, forgetting about me, or I’m worried of how this will make my ex angry.
But I think the No Contact Rule in and of itself gets a bad rap because a lot of the breakup