About this episode
I had the pleasure of interview Lee a few days ago and I was blown away at her approach to her breakup.
Not only did she really buy in to putting the focus on herself (as opposed to her ex) but she absolutely KILLLED IT during the texting phase.
Check out some of the things we talked about in our interview,
The beginning of the breakup. 0:02
Getting back into the game after a breakup. 3:35
No contact for 45 days. 7:41
How she got into the coaching world. 11:57
Coffee grinders and coffee. 17:12
The importance of the internal part of the process. 23:40
Not cool things that were not cool. 28:54
There’s no such thing as an innocent cup of coffee. 33:40
The most important epiphany she had. 39:23
Interview Transcript
Chris Seiter 00:02
All right, today we have a another success story. We have Lee here who is going to tell us all about her situation. And specifically, she wanted me to highlight the importance of the work she did during the texting phase. So I’m eager to get into that. But thank you so much for coming on and doing this.
Lee 00:17
Oh, thanks for having me. Actually, thank you very much for creating this program. I purchased. Probably all of the programs I could think of five, perhaps in addition to yours, so
Chris Seiter 00:31
yeah, you were saying that, you know, the big ones.
Lee 00:33
The big hit heavy hitters,
Chris Seiter 00:36
right? You always you always I find it’s like sometimes people, you know, they just jive with different things better than than others. But I’m, I’m blessed to have you here. So, again, thank you for doing this. Why don’t you take us back to the beginning of men? I don’t know, if you want to take take it from like the beginning of the relationship or the beginning of the breakup. One. I’ll just leave that to you.
Lee 01:02
So I had met my significant other online. We had a long texting fees. About three months before we met in person. The first time around, we call that the first relationship. And then we met, it was like a fireworks type, relationship and person. Things were really heavy. I had had a surgery, he was there for me. He met my son, he was in my family. He started living with me, but he still had his own apartment, which is a very avoidant thing to do.
Chris Seiter 01:46
So did you guys move in together? Like, way too quickly? Like how long did that take to unfold? Exactly?
Lee 01:53
Well, so we’re in our mid 40s, he’s a year and a half younger than me. So I mean, I would say about 45 minutes, 45
Chris Seiter 02:01
minutes, 45 minutes. That’s the
Lee 02:05
relationship. He was there No, five months. And it was, um, you know, he was here all the time. But he wasn’t like, contributing as much. And we had problems, but I was afraid to broach the topics. Um,
