About this episode
This is a complete breakdown of the major reasons why walking away is so powerful.
In all, my team and I have found seven distinct reasons that we’d like to talk about today,
Allows You To Take Them Off The Pedestal
The No Contact Triad
Success Stories Consistently Cite That “Outgrowing An Ex Is Key”
Gives The Avoidant A Chance For Nostalgic Reverie To Kick In
You Are Setting A Firm Boundary
You Finally Have Space To Heal
You Are Removing Yourself From A Potentially Toxic Situation
There’s quite a bit to cover today so I’m just going to dive right in!
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Reason #1: Allows You To Take Them Off The Pedestal
A few weeks ago my wife and I partnered up on writing an article about codependence and noticed that many of our clients exhibit codependent tendencies.
Basically their entire world revolves around their breakup, their partner, or their ex.
This creates what I call the pedestal effect.
Here’s a video I did on it,
So what we’re always trying to caution our clients against is the idea of putting your ex or partner on a pedestal.
You want them to be equal to you or perhaps a little bit below.
The goal is not to punch above your weight class, so to speak.
However, in some codependent relationships, things can shift. What might have started as you being a