About this episode
Today we’re going to talk about why your ex jumped into another relationship so quickly after their breakup with you.
And really I want to highlight two areas that often don’t get talked about enough,
The Swept Under The Rug Facts About Rebounds
How Avoidant Research Can Help Us Understand The Speed Of Rebounds
So, buckle up buttercup because we are going to be diving into things that are rarely talked about in the breakup industry.
Let’s begin!
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The Facts The Breakup Industry Sweeps Under The Rug About Rebounds
Generally speaking when you are looking at a situation where your ex quickly jumps into another relationship after their breakup with you, you are looking at a rebound relationship.
Of course, when you are looking at rebounds there are certain held beliefs that people have about them.
That they are all destined to fail
That they are an unhealthy way of handling a breakup
But what if I were to tell you that most of what you believe about rebounds might be wrong. In fact, many of the stereotypes you have about them are simply false when looking at the data.
Take the “unhealthy” aspect.
So, most people believe that rebounds don’t give you time to process your emotions and properly grieve. I suppose the expectation is that you are supposed to go through the five stages of grief after a breakup before moving on to someone else.
But what usually happens is that right around when we get to this stage or this stage,