About this episode
Today I’m going to show you why I believe that cutting a man off is one of the very best ways to get him to miss you.
Since I started Ex Boyfriend Recovery in 2012 I’ve witnessed thousands of women utilize many variations of no contact on men and studied how they react.
The natural assumption most people have is that by utilizing no contact, or cutting a guy off, will instantly make them miss you.
However, I’ve found that getting them to a place where they miss you is not always a straight line. In fact, there will be a lot of emotional value changes along the way.
Here’s how guys typically feel when you cut them off,
Initial shock
Pain (Genuinely hurt)
Anger
Vengeance
Depression
Regret
Acceptance
Let’s take some time and dig in to each of these.
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Stage One: Initial Shock
You cut your guy off.
You’ve decided to stop talking to him. You’ve temporarily removed him from your life. I promise you it’s going to come as a shock, especially if you were on previously good terms.
And if you really think about this stage it has a lot in common with the five stages of grief,
denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance
Your guy will go into denial.
They won’t believe that you’d be willing to take such a drastic measure.
Out of all the stages we are going to talk about today this one is by far the quickest because it quickly paves the way for our next stage, pain.
Stage Two: Pain
When the realization hits that you’ve cut them off.
That you aren’t going to be talking to them for the foreseeable future it’s going to hurt.
They are going to feel as if all the time they invested with you was for nothing. They’ll convince themselves that
