About this episode
This is a complete guide on why an ex would end things with you but still consistently contact you.
So, if you’re looking to understand
Why they do it.
What’s going on psychologically.
How to tell if their overtures are genuine.
Then you’ll love everything we talk about in this new guide.
First things first though,
Why would an ex still stay in touch after breaking it off with you?
Well, I think it boils down to five things,
Avoidant Nostalgic Reverie
Grass Is Greener
Ensuring That You Are An Option Lined Up For Later
He’s Grown Jealous Of You From Afar
He May Genuinely Want To Reconcile
Let’s get started!
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Thing#1: The Avoidant Nostalgic Reverie
A year ago I wrote an article on how to make an avoidant miss you.
The research done in pursuit of answering that one question (how to make an avoidant miss you) turned out to be pretty revolutionary for the way we advise our clients to handle their exes. In fact, I grew so inspired by it that I filmed an entire video on the topic,
Now, you may be sitting there (or standing) reading this article and ultimately rolling your eyes with the thought that your ex is in no way an avoidant.
And you may be right.
However, according to internal polls of our clients most believe their exes to be avoidant and it isn’t particularly close,
