About this episode
Today I’d like to talk about the one behavior that your ex can’t seem to resist.
Achieve this one behavior and you’ll dramatically raise the chances of them reaching out and showing interest.
(I can’t guarantee they’ll come back. No one can but I can guarantee if you do this they’ll show interest.)
So, what is this special behavior?
Well, let me prime this discussion a bit.
As you know, starting in 2020 I really started leaning heavily on success story interviews. Specifically I became interested in what was actually working for real life people. What was it that they were doing that caused them to be irresistible to their exes?
If you’ve read any of my earlier articles or watched any of my older videos you’d know that the conclusion I came to is that they were able to achieve this mentality where they didn’t care if they got them back or not. In other words, they were able to outgrow their exes.
So, that’s the key, right?
Outgrow your ex and you’ll be golden.
Well…
What if I were to tell you there’s more to it. That we should actually dig deeper.
That’s what I’m going to be focusing on today.
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The Focus Factor
You always hear me talk about the importance of outgrowing an ex but what does that actually mean?
Does that mean you are letting them go?
Not necessarily.
Does that mean you are forgetting about them?
Definitely not.
So, what’s this magical thing to outgrowing an ex. Well, I think it revolves around your focus. For the first time in arguably a long time you aren’t completely focused on them. You begin to focus on yourself. Cliche, I know but hear me out.
One of the things I noticed from the success stories is that they seemed to be incredib