About this episode
Is change really something to fear or the doorway to a brighter, more intentional life? What if the moments when everything feels uncertain are precisely when new possibilities emerge? In this uplifting episode of The Big Drink Rethink, host Anna Donaghey welcomes author and coach Eleanor Tweddell, whose book Another Door Opens explores the messy, hopeful, and deeply human process of navigating personal transformation.Together, Anna and Eleanor unpack what it means to face closed doors whether it's about drinking, work, relationships, or life itself and how to turn endings into powerful new beginnings. If you’re grappling with resistance to change (or maybe just a nagging sense that something isn’t right), this conversation is packed with understanding, psychological insight, and practical strategies to help you move forward.Here are the Highlights:00:00 Introduction: Meet Eleanor Tweddell, author and change expert02:08 Why closed doors aren’t the end—change as an opening03:04 Redundancy, discomfort, and listening to the inner voice04:38 The Do Lecture Bootcamp, risk, and growth05:48 Resistance vs. readiness: why “I’ll do it tomorrow” feels safer08:33 The power and necessity of ownership when facing change12:40 Micro-change in daily life: choice, triggers, and how we respond14:55 The inevitability of change: we’re already masters at adapting17:37 The importance of the pause: creating space and acknowledging what you need19:32 Why alcohol is often our default “pause” and what listening to our emotions can reveal22:14 Turning resistance into reflection: the first step to possibility24:45 The messy middle: limiting beliefs, discomfort, and the courage to stay and learn33:34 Support, connection, and the ripple effect of personal change34:56 Playfulness as a tool: experiments, brainstorming, and expanding your sense of what’s possible.Anna’s group coaching community ‘Unstuck!’ helps identify your alcohol ‘stories’ and beliefs, breaking the cycle of alcohol and all the shame that goes with it. For more information and to find out how to join, please follow this link: https://www.winetowatercoaching.com/unstuck-1 To further explore your relationship with alcohol, check out Anna’s self-guided programme, The Big Drink Rethink Experiment: https://www.thebeliefscoach.com/the-big-drink-rethink-experimentAnd apply the code POD99 to purchase for just £99 as a podcast listener.If you’re loving the podcast and would like to give Anna a warm, fuzzy feeling of appreciation, then you can buy her a c
