About this episode
Welcome back to another explosive episode of That’s My Time Podcast with your host Tolu Afilaka and i have my amazing brothers — Increase, AYK, Awa Victor, Fulfillment, and Gini.In honor of Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, we went all in: from relationship standards, cheating, ego, money, and masculinity, to how men really process emotions. You don’t want to miss this honest, funny, and at times, very raw conversation.? Timestamps & Topics Breakdown:00:00 - Intro & Welcome02:00 - Should a Christian Man Have a Spec?We debate the "spec" culture — what kind of women each of us actually like.Gini drops his love for deep conversations.Increase opens up about how his girlfriend wasn’t originally his "spec".Fulfillment wants good English + pedigree.Awa Victor and Gini clash with hilarious disagreements.Fulfillment drops: "What happens to the dumb babes?"Gini: "I like to feel underrated and then get the babe."20:00 - Hot Seat: Cheating, Forgiveness & LoyaltyFulfillment gets grilled on the hot seat!Gini breaks down why your girlfriend shouldn't stop you from finding your wife ?.Tolu explains why cheating is never okay.AYK declares: "I don’t even have the capacity to cheat."The panel explores the question: Should cheaters be forgiven?Tolu shares his own real-life cheating temptation story.Awa drops deep relationship wisdom.40:00 - When The Lady Initiates CheatingAwa Victor shares powerful wisdom on how men should handle cheating temptations.Tolu reports his cheating experience to Ebuka Mic.Should men give women money? What happens when a lady asks for wig money?Fulfillment shares his story about dating a celebrity's daughter.The crew discusses men’s ego, finances and how "money makes love sweeter."60:00 - Outro & Final Gems? LIKE | COMMENT | SUBSCRIBE | SHAREThis is one of the most REAL, UNSCRIPTED, and POWERFUL episodes on men’s struggles, relationships and navigating love in today’s world.#MensMentalHealth #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #ChristianDating #PodcastAfrica #ThatIsMyTimePodcast #MenTalkReal #ThinkLikeAMan #LoveAndEgo #CheatingCulture #MasculinityIn2025 #ViralPodcast #NigerianPodcast #DatingPodcast #ModernLove #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #ThatsMyTimePodcast #MensMentalHealth #MensMentalAwarenessMonth #ThinkLikeAMan #ChristianDating #RelationshipPodcast #BlackMenTalk #PodcastDrama #HotSeatPodcast #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMoney #ForgivingCheating #ModernMasculinity #AfricanPodcast #NigerianPodcast #MoneyMakesLoveSweeter #MenTalkReal #RealTalkPodcast #DatingAdviceForMen #ViralPodcast #PodcastClips #LoveAndEgofemi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Gover
