About this episode
Part 2 of my interview with Dr. Tara goes deeper into erotic solutions for long term relationships, techniques that rebuild desire and the practices couples use to reconnect without penetration. Dr. Tara breaks down yab yum, sexual meditation, mutual masturbation and the role lube plays in midlife pleasure. You learn why women respond differently to pressure, why adoration matters more than appreciation and why most couples never speak honestly about kink. Dr. Tara also explains sex parties, sex cruises, female ejaculation, squirting technique, cuckolding, hot wifing and how non monogamous couples build trust. This episode gives you practical tools to increase intimacy, try new experiences and communicate without fear.Timestamps:00:00 Part 2 intro00:18 Why couples need more than toys00:40 Erotic solutions for sexless marriages01:05 Yab yum explained02:02 How yab yum builds intimacy02:45 Breathwork and skin-on-skin connection03:20 Removing pressure and responsive desire04:05 Why midlife women shut down sexually04:42 The role of lube in midlife pleasure05:20 How to give a yoni massage06:10 Slip and slide technique with lube06:45 Why receiving is hard for many women07:20 Why hand jobs are powerful for connection08:02 Using a vibrator while giving a hand job08:40 Why giving can boost intimacy09:20 Appreciation vs adoration10:15 Why women need adoration to feel sexy11:00 Emotional safety and sexual openness11:32 How to ask for kink without scaring your partner12:10 Using the media mention method for kink12:52 Dr. Tara’s sexual profile13:33 What “kinky” means for different people14:10 What erotic parties are really like15:02 Why sex parties are safer than nightclubs15:45 The age differences at sex parties16:12 Female led sex parties and sex cruises17:05 Dr. Tara’s first sex party experience17:40 Understanding squirting and female ejaculation18:15 The technique that triggers squirting19:02 Can you make yourself squirt19:40 Cuckolding and hot wifing explained20:10 How open couples build trust and connectionWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out!About the Guest:Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication, and quantitative research at California State University Fullerton (received her tenure at the age of 33), an award-winning researcher, TV Sexpert on
