Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?
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Did Swinging Ruin Our Relationship?

1:00:21 Feb 24, 2026
About this episode
In Part 2 of this deep-dive episode, Jess and Lawrence answer real questions from the OSS community about boundaries, consent, rule-breaking, and what really happens when things shift mid-play. We unpack: • What to do when another couple changes the rules during sex• How to handle boundaries being crossed in non-monogamy• Tips for anal and DP (double penetration) done safely• The biggest regrets (if any) about joining the lifestyle• Parenting while owning a sex club• Managing jealousy, reputation and daycare drop-offs• Working with your ex while building a lifestyle business Plus, voice messages and video questions from our extended community — including familiar faces from the lifestyle podcast space. This episode is raw, honest and unfiltered — but always rooted in consent, communication and curiosity. If you’re exploring non-monogamy, swinging, open relationships, or just curious about how real people navigate sex-positive spaces — this one’s for you. Sponsors: “Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15)  “Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: secretspot20) New to the podcast? Don’t worry — you can catch up on all 100+ spicy episodes anytime, anywhere. Got a fantasy, story, or sexy prompt you’d love us to read on-air? DM us or drop it in our inbox Instagram (Podcast)
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