74. Why You Can’t Let Go: Listener Questions About Love & Attachment

74. Why You Can’t Let Go: Listener Questions About Love & Attachment

17:26 Jul 2, 2025
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Ever feel like your attraction to someone might be more pain than passion?In this Q&A episode, I’m answering listener-submitted questions that get to the heart of what so many of us struggle with in relationships. We’re diving into the difference between anxious attachment and intuition (spoiler alert: your intuition doesn’t panic-text six times in a row), unpacking what activating and deactivating strategies really look like, and taking a hard look at trauma bonds. I also talk about what to do when you're still emotionally or physically attracted to someone you know is bad for you and why that doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you.You might want to listen if:You’re constantly questioning if it’s your intuition or your anxiety talkingYou keep texting even when you promised yourself you’d stopYou feel stuck in a relationship that feels both intense and unsafeYou rationalize someone’s hurtful behavior and blame yourselfYou don’t understand why you still want someone who treats you poorlyFIND OUT MORE! Join the Speak Honest Academy Grab Your Copy of my #1 Best Selling Book --> Dance of Attachment Apply for FREE Podcast Coaching with Jenn Join our FREE Community! Speak Honest Facebook Group ? Schedule your Free 30 min Attachment Assessment with Jenn Today! Watch Jenn on the ? TEDx Stage! Visit www.speak-honest.com to learn more Follow Jenn on Instagram: @speak_honest Like the episode? Please write a review, your words help others find us! DISCLAIMER: Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for accuracy but are not liable for errors or outcomes from this information.
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