About this episode
Today we're unpacking the AA saying "Share the message, not the mess" and how it can be harmful. We'll cover how sharing the message not the mess:Timestamps: 00:00 Intro Share The Message, Not The Mess05:12 1. Replaces authentic expression with scripted speech19:49 2. Reinforces indoctrination through repetition38:10 3. Disconnects you from your inner authority58:31 4. Creates emotional stagnation1:01:54 5. Trains self-censorship1:03:18 6. Keeps the system alive, not you1:07:28 Reconstruction: Telling A New StoryResources for deconstructing AA:? Deprogram Lounge (community, Zooms, book club, Escape Kit + more)? Deprogram Book List (my fave deprogram, cult recovery and critical thinking books)Let’s get f*cking free