About this episode
Anal meditations, bratty submission, secret high-school sex adventures, and an almost-foursome—Cece shares how she became a devoted submissive, why communication shapes her entire sex life, and what she’s learned from kink, aftercare, and getting caught by the police (twice).? PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricantLORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offSHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 offMOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toysENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyoneSDC: A place for swingers to connect? STATS | 22 straight-ish cis female, she/her pronouns, married, from the Pacific Northwest, into: bondage, power play, role play, anal, and all the sexy things.? TIME CODE00:00 Shame scales, early sex curiosity, and discovering pleasure05:03 Open family sex education, pamphlets, and learning bodies10:00 Teen sex memories, vulnerability, and first experiences12:58 Unconscious masturbation, early orgasms, and evolving solo play15:55 How her body likes to be touched and training new techniques18:37 Open relationship chapter, touching other people, and clear boundaries20:24 Health talks, STI conversations, condoms, and safety mindsets22:44 From porn to watching their own videos and exploring anal interests24:52 Toys, bondage, bratty submission, and discovering her kinky self26:59 Group sex curiosity, the chaotic almost-foursome, and consent check-ins30:03 Sex dreams, fantasy life, and shared desires for group play33:12 Submissive psychology, dominance dynamics, and early kink development36:59 Anal sex as meditation, physical process, and emotional trust39:45 Feeling desired, daily massages, and the intimacy of touch44:06 Turn-ons, turn-offs, masculinity preferences, and red flags
