About this episode
Tantra, threesomes, and learning to live turned on—Wil shares how energy, consent, and connection reshaped his sex life, marriage, and sense of confidence.? PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricantLORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offSHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 offMOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toysENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyoneSDC: A place for swingers to connect? STATS | 57 straight cis male, he/him pronouns, pan-curious, married, a certified Tantra educator, massage practitioner, journeyman and electrician, originally from Central California, into: leather work and ropes.? TIME CODE00:00 Shame, nervous energy, and the ritual of surprising his wife with massage05:12 Defining sexy: confidence, boundaries, and a turned-on life10:03 Fear-based sex ed, STIs, and learning safety the hard way15:26 A surprise visit that led to a transformative threesome20:17 Early porn, masturbation, and first partnered experiences25:57 Performance anxiety, nervous systems, and why connection matters31:06 Tantra, orgasmic meditation, and learning to receive36:18 Energetic orgasms and what they feel like in the body41:00 Power dynamics, leather, rope, and control in marriage47:05 Exploring with men, anal play, and navigating uncertainty52:15 Porn phases, erotic specifics, and what turns him on57:31 Aging, erections, and sustaining sexual energy59:26 Advice to his younger self and hopes for deeper intimacy aheadOriginally released September 2022.? ABOUT LUNA | lunarobbie.com / linktr.ee/luna
