About this episode
Luna shares her love of prostate massages and pegging—defining what they are and offering a detailed guide on how she creates safe, luxurious anal play sessions. From lube, prep, and communication to personal stories, aftercare, and the possibility of assgasms, she shows how these practices can dismantle shame, deepen intimacy, and expand pleasure.? PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | Use the code LOVER for 50% off your yearly membershipÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricantLORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offSHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 offMOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toysSDC: A place for swingers to connect? TIME CODE00:00 Exploring pleasure, connection, and trust00:54 Why pressure isn’t sexy and how curiosity leads to connection01:15 The basics of backdoor play: prep, communication, and trust01:40 What these practices actually involve02:10 Luna’s first discoveries and how her own pleasure evolved03:24 Letting go of shame and learning full-body surrender03:49 Creating safe spaces for partners to relax and receive05:04 Why patience, lube, and consent are essential05:58 How new sensations can make partners more attentive lovers07:48 Tailoring every session to each person’s comfort and desire09:53 Negotiation at the ranch — setting boundaries and intentions10:35 Debunking “kinky” myths and bringing nurturing energy to play12:36 The art of feedback, options, and affirmative communication13:48 Preparation: hygiene, timing, diet, and comfort tips16:00 Supporting first-timers with gentleness and reassurance17:14 Solo explorers and long-term enthusiasts18:43 Adding familiar sensations and b