About this episode
Premature ejaculation, tantra, rope, and group sex—Leo shares how he transformed lifelong sexual shame into a deeply embodied, sensual Dominant power that’s reshaped his relationships, parenting, and pleasure.? PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!ÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricantLORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offSHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 offMOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toysENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyoneSDC: A place for swingers to connect? STATS | 45 hetero-flexible cis male, Danish, into: kink, rope play, group play, gangbangs, tantra.? TIME CODE00:00 Condom confidence and what “sexy” feels like now02:44 Growing up on a dairy farm, early arousal, and the first glimpses of consent07:04 First partnered sex, premature ejaculation, and seven years of avoiding intimacy11:07 Masturbation habits, rowing career discipline, and learning to pleasure partners with hands and mouth16:08 Cultivating sensitivity, connection, and confidence through practice17:21 Trauma, grief, and how a devastating accident reshaped his marriage and sexuality20:01 Opening their marriage, jealousy, desire, and years of non-monogamous exploration22:10 The tantric woman who told him “you cannot come,” fear, bliss, and the moment everything changed26:06 Trying to bring tantra home, mismatch with his wife, and the beginning of the end of their marriage28:16 Sex-positive communities, Sunday Clubs, and learning to be a sexual being around other people31:13 Rope as sensuality—kinbaku, shibari, and discovering how tying feels like using his whole body34:17 Dominance, dirty talk, and why he’s a sensual top39:59 Porn expectations and learning to savor erotic energy42:26 Creativity born from “coming too fast,” sensual play, and buil
