About this episode
CBT, play parties, handmade kink toys, and erotic ritual—Hawthorn returns to share how pain, pleasure, and their pagan practice intertwine to create meaningful connection in kinky community spaces.? PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!WE-VIBE: App-enabled toys | Use the code SEXSTORIES20 for 20% off sitewideÜBERLUBE: the BEST personal lubricantLORALS: FDA-cleared latex lingerie | Use the code LOVER for 10% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offSHAMELESS CARE: Sex positive healthcare | Use the code LOVER for $15 offMOTORBUNNY: Sex machines & riding toysENJOX TOYS: Enjoy smart sex for everyoneSDC: A place for swingers to connect? STATS | 60s kinky pansexual switch, they/them pronouns, polyamorous, pagan, non-monogamously married, from Melbourne, Australia, into: handmade kink toys, play parties, play partners, their lover and their wife.? TIME CODE00:00 Returning to play parties and asking for what you want03:15 Discovering CBT scenes, women who top, and erotic pain as connection05:16 Cock and ball torture basics: tools, consent, limits, and intensity08:07 Subspace, dirty talk, and surrendering control during heavy impact12:19 Sensation play, anticipation, and loving pain14:03 Play furniture, suspension swings, and exhibitionist party scenes18:02 Being watched, strap-ons, prostate orgasms, and party sex fantasies22:52 Praise, aftercare, and power dynamics25:31 Exploring top space: inflicting pain, sadistic pleasure, and feedback29:18 Community play, enthusiasm, and safe kinky connection31:01 Handmade kink toys and snake symbolism35:09 Paganism, sex as sacred, consent, and spiritual practice38:39 Sex magic, sigils, orgasmic intention, and changing one’s life43:05 Ritual sex with partners and spread
