329 | Surviving Torture Porn & Writing to Heal: Kelly Jean’s Update

329 | Surviving Torture Porn & Writing to Heal: Kelly Jean’s Update

1:25:14 Jan 13, 2026
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BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | beducate.me/lovernyeCelibacy, kink, breathwork orgasms, and deep trauma healing—Kelly Jean shares how she’s reclaiming her body, her boundaries, and her erotic self.? KELLY JEAN LINKS | rosemarysoul.com / substack / @kellyjeanslucky? PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex | beducate.me/lovernyeRUGIET READY: A next-gen prescription to amplify arousal | Use the code LOVER for 15% offFIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% offBUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% offSDC: A place for swingers to connect? STATS | 47 pansexual woman, she/her pronouns, neurodivergent, single, leans non-monogamous, performance artist, sound healer, singer, musician, breathwork and meditation teacher, and writer, former sex worker, a survivor who lives with complex PTSD, into: creating spaces where people can feel safe enough to soften, to feel, and to heal, and she’s currently writing a memoir and sharing openly on Substack about sex work, kink, addiction, domestic violence, suicide, mental illness, recovery, and radical honesty. ? TIME CODE00:00 Kelly Jean’s return and why she’s focusing on self-connection04:58 Ending a monogamous relationship, choosing celibacy, and rediscovering herself10:26 A surprise kinky hookup and finding joy without shame14:05 Felt-sense listening, boundaries, and unmasking in relationships19:10 Dropping personas, burnout from masking, and reclaiming authenticity23:28 What celibacy meant to her, hysterectomy grief, and hormonal shifts28:02 Kundalini, breathwork, and how trauma moves out of the body32:36 Breath-powered self-pleasure, emotional orgasms, and healing37:14 Perimenopause, intuition versus trauma triggers, and body wisdom42:20 Somatic healing, Kundalini yoga, and nervous
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