Grief Shape-Shifts: Guidance for Parents and LGBTQ Allies Navigating Loss

Grief Shape-Shifts: Guidance for Parents and LGBTQ Allies Navigating Loss

21:02 Mar 24, 2026
About this episode
Join me on Substack for more tools to stay human in a complicated world. Do you ever feel like you should be "past" your grief by now? Like there's some invisible finish line you haven't reached?On what would have been her sister Corinne's 49th birthday, Heather opens up about the moment that cracked her wide open and why grief doesn't expire, it shape-shifts. In this deeply personal episode, she walks through the five stages of grief not as a checklist, but as a living landscape and draws a powerful through-line between personal loss, the hidden grief parents of LGBTQ+ youth carry, and the collective heartbreak so many of us are feeling right now.Whether you're an ally looking for guidance, a parent navigating your child's identity, or simply a human carrying something heavy you haven't been able to name, this episode is for you.In this episode, you'll learn:Why the five stages of grief aren't linear and why that's actually good newsHow denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance show up for parents of LGBTQ+ kids and for allies navigating a world in crisisA powerful reframe: acceptance isn't complacency, it's the birthplace of sustainable actionThis is the first episode in a three-part grief series. Next week, we'll explore how personal grief maps onto the collective, and what it looks like to hold space for LGBTQ+ families while also holding space for yourself.If you're ready to stop judging your grief and start getting curious about what it's teaching you, press play now.Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!Are you ready to take action? Let's connect and create a personalized plan!Stay informed - receive my newsletter 2x/monthInvite me to speak at your workshop or eventRead my book, Parenting with Pride. Share More Human. More Kind. Please
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