About this episode
There's a trite piece of advice that every man has heard a thousand times, and is bored of hearing: Choose a woman for her character, NOT her beauty.And I won't repeat that advice; I contend that the savvy seducer can get both virtue and beauty in one package. That's what I did, and I wrote a 500-page book about how to make that magic happen. Recently, I finished a book that makes an almost comically perfect companion to mine: "Venus Fly Trap" ā the memoir of a man who seduced the enduring affections of a succubus from the ninth circle of hell. Iām speaking metaphorically. Just barely.I'm joined by Stephen Paul Edwards, who has a PhD in Spiritual Counseling and 20+ years working alongside leaders like Anthony Robbins, Robert Kiyosaki, and Dean Graziosi. Stephen brings an experiential lens to personal growth, and he's the author of "Venus Fly Trap."3:52 Why do elite men have "low standards?"8:25 Geographic deregulation of the sexual marketplace10:55 Mental health & self-sabotage12:47 Master teachers21:30 Where boundaries and compromise fail28:00 Tactical and practical: Seduction, good game, and boundaries result in tranquility 35:35 About Venus Fly Trap39:20 Character is revealed early in a relationship45:48 Toxic relationships52:51 Abundance mindset: what it costs you and how to hack it58:23 Timeline therapy1:00:00 How successful men waste their sexual market value01:06:57 Age differences in relationships01:15:41 Tough love: This was a regrettable relationship01:21:51 Venus Fly Trap - NOT relationship adviceRead š Everything mentioned herehttps://www.limitlessmindset.com/podcast/784-venus-fly-trapOrder š Venus Fly Traphttps://vft23.com/book/Connect with Stephenhttps://www.instagram.com/venusflytrap23_official/https://x.com/stephen_edwardzhttps://www.youtube.com/@stephenpauledwards/videoshttps://www.facebook.com/share/1adJdxdm9D/?mibextid=wwXIfr]Coaching and Counseling https://vft23.com/coaching-and-counselling/Confused?Clarity is a confi
