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Ask Us a Question!WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN? Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen? Book a 1:1 Call with David ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david?? Book a Marriage Coaching ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-callGROUPS???? Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un???? Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-groupRESOURCES?? Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop?? David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-???? Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% ? https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayalFollow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayalFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoachingFollow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayalIn this episode, David and Eileen talk about the ultimate killer of intimacy post-betrayal: defensiveness. This shows up mostly when the betrayer is trying to do things differently, but their past actions are brought up. When this happens, it can spiral them into shame or defensiveness. The betrayed has every right to bring these wounds up, and navigating these conversations WITHOUT defensiveness is key to healing and intimacy. But how do you do that? David and Eileen give you some tips.----------------------------------------------------Welcome to a raw, honest, an
