About this episode
Send us a textIn this episode, David and Eileen discuss the pressures caused by the perfectionist mindset of recovery to "get it exactly right" or "be the hero" that ultimately works against recovery by not actively practicing vulnerability. In its place, they talk about what a progress mindset can achieve in opening up to our partner, being honest with ourselves, and showing our weaknesses in strength through communication. In the second half of the episode, David and Eileen also share a recent example from their lives where conflict prompted them to reassess the progress they needed to make, rather than falling into feelings of failure and perfection. Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal.----------------------------------------------------Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation.If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours.Support the show
