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Ask Us a Question!WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN? Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen? Book a 1:1 Call with David ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david?? Book a Marriage Coaching ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-callGROUPS???? Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un???? Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-groupRESOURCES?? Get Eileen’s Boundaries e-book and Bootcamp Training ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/full-workshop?? David’s Crash Course on Starting Sobriety ? https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/crash-course-on-starting-sobriety-???? Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% ? https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayalFollow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayalFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoachingFollow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayalIn this episode, David and Eileen discuss the pressures caused by the perfectionist mindset of recovery to "get it exactly right" or "be the hero" that ultimately works against recovery by not actively practicing vulnerability. In its place, they talk about what a progress mindset can achieve in opening up to our partner, being honest with ourselves, and showing our weaknesses in strength through communication. In the second half of the episode, David and Eileen also share a recent example from their lives where conflict prompted them to reassess the progress t
