About this episode
What happens when a bride’s sister demands the wedding photos be moved — because she’s pregnant? This episode dives into a real-life story filled with family tension, wedding day stress, and boundary crossing. Christa and Kati unpack the drama behind the scenes: from feelings of entitlement to unspoken rivalries and the pressure of making a wedding day perfect for everyone.If you’ve ever wondered how far you should bend for family or what’s really acceptable at weddings, this episode is for you. Plus, they share honest reflections on friendship, jealousy, and the tricky art of RSVP etiquette.My new book Here Comes the Drama: A Ferris and Sloan Story is live! Get the book!Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments
The Photo Location Drama — Should a bride accommodate a pregnant sister’s request to move photo shoots on the wedding day?
Family Tension and Silent Rivalry — Exploring possible jealousy and competition between siblings at weddings.
When Love Isn’t Transactional — Discussing the expectation of reciprocity in wedding roles and attendance.
The Importance of RSVP Etiquette — How a simple “yes” or “no” can save the bride and groom headaches.
Photographer vs. Planner Roles — Why having a dedicated wedding planner is crucial to avoid chaos.
Pregnancy and Wedding Participation — Respecting health and energy limits without guilt-tripping.
Friendship Boundaries Post-Wedding — Navigating hurt feelings when friends can’t attend your big day.
Legal Marriage vs. Long-Term Partnerships — When wedding guest lists exclude “non-married” partners, and why that’s problematic.
About Kati:Kati Kons is a queer wedding fashion stylist based in Washington, D.C. They specialize in helping queer individuals find affirming and non-traditional attire for weddings and other formal events. Kati works with nearlyweds, guests, and vendors, guiding them through the process of finding attire that reflects their personal style and identity. They are known for their inclusive and affirming approach to wedding fashion, particularly for those who may not find themselves represented in traditional wedding attire.*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional for your specific situation.Follow Kati Kons:
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