Life's Infinite Games: How to play by your own rules

What if the game you're playing isn't yours? Every moment of your life, something is at stake. Ignore your partner, they feel less loved. Choose status over meaning, you'll need a therapist. We inherit these games—LinkedIn profiles that read like eager cover letters, news consumption that convinces us everything's collapsing, social media that demands we perform. But there's another way.  Instead of seeking approval, seek independence. Instead of doing what looks good, do what is good for us. The philosopher suggests three modes: machine (following instructions), intelligent (playing better), and zen (not playing at all). This episode will help you be more intelligent and more zen. SPONSORS ??? NordLayer Security across your business 10% off: GROWTHMINDSET-10 ???????http://nordlayer.com/growthmindset?????? NEW SHOW - ???????????????????????????????How to Change the World: The History and Future of Innovation??????????????????????????????? Learn about the evolving story of the human species and our ideas told in chronological order. Spotify - ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????https://open.spotify.com/show/1Fj3eFjEoAEKF5lWQxPJyT???????????????????????????????????????????????????????? Apple - ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-change-the-world-the-history-of-innovation/id1815282649???????????????????????????????????????????????????????? YouTube - ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????https://www.youtube.com/@HowToChangeTheWorldPodcast???????????????????????????????????????????????????????? RSS feed - ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????https://feeds.acast.com/public/shows/682b3b86696b5d1232d698a8???????????????????????????????????????????????????????? --- UPGRADE to ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????Premium???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????: ?? Ad-free listening ? Support the show ? Exclusive AMAs and bonus content ? Community Discord ??????????????????????????????????????