About this episode
Before we go any further, let’s say this out loud:You are not “too sensitive.”You are overstimulated.Your phone is buzzing.The news is loud.The group chat is on fire.Your calendar is full.Your kids need snacks.Dinner isn’t made.And somewhere in the middle of all of it… you snap.Not because you’re a bad mom.Not because you don’t care.But because your nervous system was never designed for this much input.Get Mom Ready is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.We Were Built for Acute Stress, Not Constant StressThousands of years ago, stress came in short bursts.A threat.A reaction.A recovery.Adrenaline up.Adrenaline down.Now?The stress never fully resolves.The notifications don’t stop.The news cycle doesn’t slow down.The scroll never ends.Your body is staying in a low-grade state of fight-or-flight…and then your child spills milk and you feel like you might explode.It’s not about the milk.It’s about the cumulative load.The Part We Don’t Talk AboutThere’s guilt, too.Guilt for turning the news off.Guilt for not being “in the know.”Guilt for having calm when others don’t.But guilt doesn’t regulate your nervous system.And it doesn’t help the world.You can care deeply about what’s happening and still protect your peace.Those are not opposites.If You’re Snapping More Than You Want To, Start HereNot with shame.Not with a new productivity system.Not with a 45-minute meditation you don’t have time for.Start with evaluation.Ask yourself:* What am I allowing into my day?* Is this input helping me live according to my values?* Do I need this much information to be a good mom? A good citizen? A good human?Most of us aren’t overwhelmed because we care.We’re overwhelmed because we have unlimited access to everything, all the time.And no one else is setting limits for us.PS. Don’t stop here. If you want super practical tools for evaluating your life and reducing decision fatigue, don’t miss our conversation with our favorite Productivity Coach Jennifer Sise. It pairs perfectly with this one.Small Ways to Regulate (Even in the Chaos)You don’t need a silent house.You need reps.* Leave your phone plugged in and walk into the next room without it.* Mute the group chat for an hour.* Decide when you will consume news instead of letting it consume you.* Go outside without your phone.* Do something with your hands (puzzles, folding laundry slowly, cooking, painting, organizing a drawer).It will feel uncomfortable at first.That’s not failure.That’s your nervous system d
