About this episode
What if the biggest relationship challenge in your home isn't a communication problem — it's an ADHD brain that nobody ever explained to you?In this eye-opening episode, Tera sits down with ADHD expert, educator, and coach Martha Hoffman (host of ADHD in the Real World podcast) to unpack what ADHD actually looks like in real families, real marriages, and real emotional lives — and why compassion might be the most powerful tool you have.Whether you're a parent who suspects your child might have ADHD, a partner frustrated by what feels like chaos, or someone who scrolled through a "signs of ADHD" reel and thought "wait... that's me" — this conversation will change how you see the people you love most.In This Episode You'll Learn:The 3 types of ADHD and why it looks completely different in women vs. menWhy emotional dysregulation is now considered CORE to ADHD — not just a side effectThe dopamine deficit connection — and why your ADHD brain might be wired for addictionHow to build a "Dopamine Menu" to replace cheap hits with lasting satisfactionWhat Fair Play facilitation does for ADHD couples — and why the trash is never just "taking out the trash"How Tera uses the Core Emotion Wheel with her ADHD kids — and what shifted for her familyMartha's own Core Emotion Wheel — vulnerability in real timeHow to respond when a partner or parent refuses to believe the ADHD diagnosis is realResources Mentioned:• Core Emotion Wheel: www.connectioncodes.co/podcast• Book a Connection Codes Coach: https://connectioncodes.co/coaches• Martha Hoffman Coaching on Instagram: @MarthaHoffmanCoaching• Martha's website: MarthaHoffmanCoaching.com• Martha's podcast: ADHD in the Real WorldKeywords/Tags:ADHD and marriage, emotional dysregulation ADHD, neurodivergent relationships, ADHD parenting, ADHD in women, ADHD emotional health, dopamine deficit, ADHD diagnosis adults, mental health and marriage, Core Emotion Wheel, connection codes podcast, ADHD coaching, ADHD fair play, neurodivergent family, ADHD relationships, emotional regulation
