About this episode
How to Take Care of Yourself as an Overwhelmed Homeschool Mom: What Self-Care Actually Is
This month’s 1% Pivot: Nurture Yourself to Nurture Them—because if you’ve been wondering how to take care of yourself as an overwhelmed homeschool mom and nurture the nurturer, this episode is for you.
By year 15 of homeschooling, I had written nearly 600 blog posts—every Wednesday night at Starbucks, processing my journey through words. That writing became therapy, self-discovery, and emotional regulation. And in 2018, it became a book that would resonate with thousands of exhausted homeschool moms. This month’s 1% Pivot: Nurture Yourself to Nurture Them. Because homeschool moms give endlessly—but so often, we forget that we need nurturing too. And when we’re depleted, our kids feel it.
What You’ll Discover in This Episode
What Self-Care Actually Is:
Why self-care isn’t about bubble baths and manicures
How to address your internal world
How to recognize the invisible load of motherhood
How you show up in relationship to yourself—and others
The Invisible Load You’re Carrying:
Managing everyone’s emotional state
Holding the family culture
Making a thousand micro-decisions a day
Navigating sibling conflicts
Keeping the household running
And somehow also supposed to enjoy doing it all
The Three Questions That Changed Everything:
When overwhelm rises, put your hand on your heart and ask:
How do I feel?
What am I thinking?
Is that thought true?
Not to convince yourself everything is fine—but to get clear and accurate about what’s actually happening inside you.
Self-care isn’t about the nail studio. It’s about caring for the part of you that you’ve been ignoring. The part of you that deserves to be known.
Why This Matters for Your Kids:
Your kids don’t need you to have it all together. They need you