When the Holidays Hurt: Staying Steady Through Triggers, Trauma, and Confusing Emotions

When the Holidays Hurt: Staying Steady Through Triggers, Trauma, and Confusing Emotions

18:45 Dec 16, 2025
About this episode
Holidays can be triggering when you’re healing from betrayal or navigating a tender recovery season. Your body remembers the pain, even when your mind wants to enjoy the good moments.This episode offers grounding tools, emotional validation, and practical strategies to move through the season without shame, self-judgment, or overwhelm. Learn why your reactions make sense and how to support yourself one moment at a time.Chapters00:13 Confusing Emotions During the Holidays02:00 Holding It All Together04:30 Your Nervous System Is Trying to Protect You05:55 Validation That You Are Enough10:21 Slow Down and Believe Your Body15:05 Your Presence Matters16:26 Season of Support Webinar Series InformationRegister Now!Season of Support - Join us for a 4-week webinar series designed specifically for couples who want to stay connected, emotionally regulated, and intentional during the holidays — rather than simply surviving them. December 1, 8, 15, 22. Register to receive the Zoom link.Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey. Questions or topics you'd like us to address? Send us an email with “Choose To Be” as the subject to podcast@chooserecoveryservices.com. Watch us? on YouTube.Follow us on Instagram: @choose_recovery_services?Schedule? a complimentary consultation.Join our email list to be notified when new episodes air.More from Choose Recovery ServicesBeyond the Facade Podcast - Podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.
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