Betrayal Trauma and Divorce: When Is It Time to Consider Divorce?

Betrayal Trauma and Divorce: When Is It Time to Consider Divorce?

43:30 Dec 2, 2025
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When betrayal trauma enters a relationship, the question “Should I stay or should I go?” becomes unavoidable—even if it feels terrifying to consider. In this episode, Amie explores trauma-informed ways to evaluate safety, patterns, repair, and whether healing is possible inside the relationship.You’ll learn why considering divorce is not the same as choosing it, how to assess real change, and how to reclaim agency, clarity, and emotional safety.Chapters02:07 The Fear and Stigma of Divorce04:36 Freedom to Consider Divorce05:54 Two Realities10:17 Impact on Children and Personal Well-Being19:44 Pattern Journaling21:01 Season of Support: Holiday Webinar Series25:21 When the Damage is Too Great27:00 Reclaiming Agency 39:40 The Cost of Staying vs. LeavingRegister Now!Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. Season of Support - Join us for a 4-week webinar series designed specifically for couples who want to stay connected, emotionally regulated, and intentional during the holidays — rather than simply surviving them. December 1, 8, 15, 22. Register to receive the Zoom link.Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey. Revive and Thrive Somatic  Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is Jan 27-30, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah. We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.
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