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I want to hear your thoughts about the show and this episode. Text us here...In this powerful episode of Casa De Confidence, Julie sits down with author, veteran, and recovery advocate Eva Nevarez St. John, whose award-winning memoir, When Tough Cookie Crumbles, tells the true story of friendship, murder, manipulation, addiction, and healing.Eva shares the story behind her friendship with Janice, how their lives ran in parallel through military service in the 1970s, and the devastating events surrounding Janice’s disappearance and murder. She opens up about falling into the orbit of a sociopath herself, navigating unresolved trauma, struggling with addiction, and what it really takes to rebuild your life when the story you planned is shattered.This conversation is raw, honest, and deeply compassionate. Together, Julie and Eva explore: how predators isolate and groom, why smart, strong, independent women are not immune, the heavy weight of shame and self-blame, and the freedom that comes from telling the truth, getting support, and refusing to let your worst chapters define your future.If you have ever questioned your judgment, felt ashamed of your past, or wondered whether it is too late to start over, this episode is for you.website (https://enchantedspiritjourneys.com/)In this episode, we talk about:Eva’s multicultural roots, growing up in a military familyJoining the Army at 19 and serving during a time when women’s roles were tightly limitedThe friendship between Eva and Janice, their bond as soldiers, roommates, and young women carving out independenceRed flags, control, and the subtle isolation tactics used by narcissists and sociopathsHow financial vulnerability, longing for safety, or wanting to “fix” someone can be used against usThe impact of Janice’s murder on Eva’s life, choices, mental health, and addictionThe parallel relationship where Eva herself is pulled in by a sociopath, despite everything she knewShame, silence, and why we stay stuck when we believe we Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showCasa De Confidence is a podcast for women navigating midlife reinvention, entrepreneurship, leadership, and personal growth. Hosted by Julie DeLucca-Collins, the show explores confidence, sustainable business success, visibility, authority building, and aligned growth for women entrepreneurs ready to lead b
