About this episode
Why is it so hard to be kind to yourself? If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and struggled with self-worth, you aren't alone. In this 10-minute session, we stop the cycle of self-judgment and the inner-child critic to find your way back to radical self-love. Join Martin—a clinical hypnotherapist and former paramedic—as he shares a deeply personal journey from self-dislike to mindful awareness. This episode is designed for those in high-pressure roles who feel self-love is a luxury; in reality, it is the foundation of your mental health resilience. Using coherent breathing and somatic soothing, we signal the nervous system that it is safe to be seen, heard, and loved. Episode Chapters:0:00 – The Mirror Question: Breaking the cycle of the inner-child critic. 1:30 – Coherent Breathing: A somatic tool for heart rate variability and emotional regulation. 2:45 – Mindful Awareness: Connecting with your heart and releasing "not enough" narratives. 4:40 – Subconscious Rewiring: Affirmations for unconditional positive regard. 8:20 – The 3 Daily Caring Tips: Practical steps for a self-loving life. 9:15 – Martin’s Journey: A heartfelt reflection on finding self-love through meditation. Affirmations for Radical Self-Compassion:Repeat these internally to allow them to wash over your subconscious: "I am learning to love the parts of me I used to hide." "My mistakes are lessons, not my identity." "I offer myself the same unconditional positive regard I give to others." "I am worthy of peace even when I am unproductive." "I release the need to be perfect and embrace being human." "Self-compassion is my superpower; it is the fuel for my resilience." Your 3 Daily Caring Tips:Mirror Work: Look yourself in the eyes today and say, "I am doing my best." Believe it. The Kindness Filter: Before you speak to yourself, ask: "Would I say this to someone I love?" Nature Connection: Step outside for five minutes and let the vast sky remind you that you are part of something beautiful. A Heartfelt InvitationThank you for trusting me with your time today. If you are ready to put a line in the sand and embrace a brighter, more positive future, join the Anxiety Circuit Breaker Course at calminganxiety.fm. For just $67, you can access five focused sessions to help you combat negative thinking for good. Be kind to yourself, love all that you are, and let's reconnect tomorrow.? Click to sub
