About this episode
Episode Themes:Motherhood & Homeschooling: Jae shares the realities of homeschooling four children while balancing her own needs and mental health.The Village & Postpartum Support: She emphasizes the importance of community support, reframing the idea that “it takes a village to raise a child” into “it takes a village to raise a mother.”Birth Trauma & Becoming a Doula: Jae’s difficult first birth experience inspired her to train as a doula so no other mother would have to go through birth unsupported.Pageants as Reclaiming Identity: From competing in pageants in 2008 to preparing for her next one, Jae uses the platform to reclaim her identity beyond motherhood and advocate for mothers and women veterans.Living with PTSD as a Mom: She openly discusses her trauma journey, the coping strategies that help her, and her message for other moms navigating PTSD and motherhood.Boundaries & Self-Care: The conversation highlights the importance of moms reclaiming their identity, setting boundaries, and parenting themselves while raising kids.Key Takeaways for Listeners:Every child — even within the same family — requires different parenting approaches.Asking for help is not weakness; it’s strength.Trauma and PTSD do not define motherhood but shape how support and healing are needed.Moms must learn to say “no” and prioritize their own needs to avoid burnout.Identity beyond motherhood matters — reclaiming hobbies, passions, and personal goals strengthens both mom and family.Why You’ll Love This Episode: This episode is raw, inspiring, and deeply relatable. Jae’s story shows resilience through trauma, the importance of support systems, and the balance between being a mom and reclaiming who you are outside of motherhood.Don't forget to subscribe, comment & like!Follow us on Instagram @BusyMomTalk!
