About this episode
One thing that gets missed often in discussions about men and women is how little men around the world experience non-sexual touch and affection. This goes hand in hand with the lack of care our culture exhibits towards men.Listen in to learn about three myths and truths reflecting men, the data behind touch, how testosterone and attachment work together, the origin of the word wife, and much more.Ready to dive into 2026 crushing your goals and being fully supported? Join TRUE NORTH - my 3 month long mastermind for men. We start next week. This is an intimate space with limited spots available - book a 1:1 call here to secure your place: https://calendly.com/anyashakh/truenorthTIMESTAMPS:00:00 — Intro: The Crisis of Non-Sexual Touch 00:44 — Welcome Back & "Year of the Horse" 01:43 — True North Mastermind Announcement 05:09 — The Touch Deficit in Boys 06:25 — Testosterone & Delayed Attachment 07:56 — The "Man Up" Narrative 09:40 — Myth: Men Just Want Sex 11:00 — The Sterilization of Affection in Society 13:00 — Social Differences: Slumber Parties vs. "Go Play" 14:32 — The Shift at Age Six: Joining the "Men's Tribe" 15:54 — When Sex Becomes the Only Outlet for Touch 16:51 — Myth: Men Lack Emotional Expression
