About this episode
Child grooming is a serious issue and much more common than most dads realize. About 90% of victims are groomed by someone they know. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about how to protect your kids from child grooming. Why This MattersGrooming can feel like an “it will never happen to me” thing, but it’s much more common than most dads know. Key Takeaways· Grooming happens primarily online: According to the Child Crime Prevention and Safety Center, there are an estimated 500,000 predators online every day.· Groomers play the long game: Predators often invest years in grooming victims.· Groomers use tools: The most common are online anonymity, establishing trust, pushing isolation, and finding leverage. They then attempt to push physical boundaries.Signs of Grooming Dads Should Know1. LOOK FOR when your child receives a lot of attention from a person.2. LOOK FOR when your child becomes isolated.3. LOOK FOR when your child exhibits unusual behavior.4. LOOK FOR when your child becomes more desensitized to crude humor and content.5. LOOK FOR when your child has an aversion to a certain person.Important Episode Timestamps00:00 – 01:09 | What Is Grooming? A Clear Definition for Parents01:09 – 02:46 | The Larry Nassar Case and Why It Still Matters to Dads02:46 – 05:08 | Grooming Doesn’t Look Like a Stranger in a Van05:08 – 10:39 | Online Grooming and the Danger of Anonymity10:39 – 12:21 | To Catch a Predator Was Just the Beginning12:21 – 15:14 | Real-Life Grooming Stories from Trusted Adults15:14 – 16:36 | Isolation Is the Biggest Red Flag16:36 – 17:57 | Behavioral Changes That Signal Possible Grooming17:57 – End | Teaching Kids Boundaries, Consent, and Trusting Their InstinctsAPD Pro Move:Talk to your kids about these tactics so they know what’s appropriate and what’s not.All Pro Dad ResourcesEpisode 66 – How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex5 Lies Teen Boys Believe About SexWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn
